A Hearty LAUGH ? ..

I am writing a blog after a long long time !! My last post was in April, 2012 and it is 2014 !! Such a long gap !..Isn't it :) Well, now when i opened this blog and read my old posts, felt like writing one !.Hmmm..but what do i write on or rather what do I talk to you about ?

A small quick question that flashed me before writing here was , which is the moment when I forget all my worries, tensions, work, responsibilities, stress, issues all together ? THINK ?? Well, it may be just for a minute or so ? Ahhh...I close my eyes and , think think think..YES !! there is such moment and I am sure it is with each one of you too !!.Ohhk no more puzzling :) It is the moment when I have a hearty Laugh :)

A Hearty Laugh !! So very true.You feel so fresh after you have a hearty laugh.But when did I have a hearty Laugh LAST ?? Oops , scratching my head hard , failed to recollect my last hearty laugh ! Have we stopped laughing ?? YES . And that is because we have stopped meeting friends, relatives, cousins , we have stopped going for family dinners and walks, family night outs and late night gupshups !! and the only reason that we can give is "WE DONT HAVE TIME" . What do we do with the time that we have ? run run run for offices, complete targets, compete neighbours and society, and wait hard for weekends :) Weekends for us are those two blessed days when we can do our pending work and responsibilities. We are just running because every one else is doing the same !! We are so busy running , that we have no time to wait and enjoy the scene around !.What will happen, if you dont open your eyes tomorrow morning ?? what if you just stop breathing ? You will automatically stop running ...right ? Why cant we then slow down this run and limit the work to get some time for ourselves , for our loved ones ? Why cant we focus on a balanced life and life without complaints ? Is it , that only the breath can stop us from running and stop forever !! Yeah Everyone is running ? No problem , let them run...

Let everyone keep running !..It doesnt matter  at all.You lower the speed , not to loose the race but to enjoy the beauty of this race and store the beautiful memories in your diary called LIFE.Let others run , you stay behind for A HEARTY LAUGH :)  

Bade Acche Lagte Hain....

Bade Acche Lagte Hain....is a serial (soap) ,on Sony ,that Iam gonna talk in this blog today.Hmm..basically its an awsome program that features two of them,a 33 year old middle class lady named 'Priya sharma' and a 40 year old super rich guy,a bussiness tycoon 'The Ram Kapoor'..

Both of them are unmarried till age.They have a different life style and are engrossed in their routine.They aren't married for some reasons ,but the main reason is "They actually never found a right partner"...and generally a series of situations are shown .....and later Ram and Priya are married ,but yeah they just get married on a contract based like just for their families...and then they dont adjust with each other,keep fighting...and lots more.Basically they hate each other and are just living a compromised life.And finally after 6 months of marriage...gradually they fall in Love...like staying together..sharing of cupboard and other stuffs in their room...and then gradually they start caring,supporting each other...and this way each of them realize that they actually are in Love ....and so on.....

When we reach a age...our parents,relatives n almost everyone tries their best to find a perfect match.I mean those bureau aunties and websites and lots more goes on for a partner searching.And obviously expectations are high ,everyone wants everything perfect in their partner...Generally we make ends meet just to find someone perfect..Many a times it does not happen !! I mean things dont meet,dont match and much more..And we get depressed...like "Why can't I get someone special?" , "Why am I not able to get my choice?" and such feelings usually comes to our mind.And the most common thought for girls is "Iam getting older !!"...not because Iam actually getting older...but because the entire society keeps on telling "beta you are 23 now na...are han kya you are 24 !!!"....It kills...

Then it happens that the person gets disheartened and finally assumes that his/her life can never have someone special ever...And that no one is made for him/her....and as years and years pass...this belief gets stronger..And finally they think that now we are quiet old and how can we fall in love OR Iam old enough and wont get married.......So basically this serial "Bade acche lagte hain..." is for the viewers who think that their age is passed and now its impossible to get someone in their life...And thats because its not you,your family or the society who finds for you...Its the destiny ,the time that makes you meet with people...and that time can be any part of your life...There's absolutely no time limit to find someone special !!! Thats truee...

You can't afford to be tensed and depressed just because the society wants you to get married soon ,at a proper age ,at a perfect time with a perfect person !!!! No...!! its planned and its gonna happen when its written in your destiny ..... so stop listening to stupid society demands..and wait for your destiny to do what is right ...........Surely God will answer the society by gifting you the bestest...so leave the rest :)....

Beauty of Mumbai lies in ......

Iam walking on a footpath or a street...I halt and turn to the roadside where I see loads n loads of traffic with cars,bus,taxis,bikes....cycles and hathgadi !!! ...I hear a voice "Excuse me madam,zara side hona please",oh! I realize I have stopped walking..I now have a look on the foothpath ahead,I see all kind and type of people just running around in hurry...the sun shining bright and sweat trickling down my face !! oh !!!...Where ever i see I can see 3 things...i.People ,ii.Traffic,iii.Tall buildings !!!Where am I ?? Oh Iam in a metro,a city always at its best ..and thats "MUMBAI"..

I agree,Mumbai is a busy city..It has no wonders like the Taj Mahal , or The buddha temple ,or a beautiful beach like in goa, or say, bright green fields like punjab and lots more....so..what is the beauty of Mumbai??? hmmm...why do I Love mumbai?? why do people love Mumbai?? Hmmm..Ill give you an answer to this :)

The beauty of Mumbai lies in its "CROWD" !!! yeah...a cosmopolitian crowd ,with a blend of all the cultures of India,multi-linguistic,colours and traditions and customs of India...Its pride lies in its people ,in its crowd...in its people...you can see and feel this beauty....You will never find a single religion,single caste or culture in a group of friends or collegues !!...Talking to them,sharing ideas with them,having fun with them...celebrating different festivles and so on....its fun...

In my five years of stay in mumbai...I had so many friends..You knw what you have categories of friends...!!! yup...College friends,Office friends,Chat friends,bus friends,Local train friends,Pani-puri friends,Exam hall friends,footpath friends on and on and on.......unlimiting categories of friends ,,,....hai na kamal ki cheeez ??? Also my friends are not limited to a country,religion,race,caste or so...Yup..I had south Indian friend,a Punjabi friend,Keralan friend,Nepali friend,Madvadi,marathi,northindian,UP,AP and all...I feel I have friend from almost all parts of India !!! Yup and its such a joy spending time with them...learning new things ...And so if all these people leave Mumbai and get back to their native places forever,Mumbai will loose its utmost beauty !!A beauty that makes this city heart and charm of our country.....:)

Life,the way you see it !

Hi guys,this is my first blog and I would  love to write it on a 4 letter word which i feel is the most complex and the most simplest ...Confused ?? Ok..Let me tell that 4 letter word and you shall understand it.Its ,"LIFE". :)

We,humans never understood how beautiful life is.Never happy with what we have ! we always see the next step.I want that,I would like to be there,I wish I were,wow !! you are soo lucky and so on...

Fine..no problem,but when we reach at that destination or we achieve what we wished for,we start to wish next ! Why?? why did we make our 1st wish?? to be happy..right?..but when we achieve that ,we forget to be happy and enjoy that gain in life,just hoping for more !!

I really dont mean that you shouldnt hope or aim for more.No.I dont mean that .Unless we aim in life we can never succeed.Actually, the fact is that we get so very engrossed in our list of wishes that we forget to enjoy our achievements ,our success..

Have we ever imagined.what if i sleep tired and upset and dont open my eyes ever again? Have we ever thought ,what if the most weirdest thing happens and we will never meet our loved ones(for whom we dont have time to spend)? what if i suddenly stop breathing forever ??.Yup !! everything ...the way we run,shout and yell at people,engrossed in tensions,frustations,running around .. everything will stop forever.That time,when we breathe last..We would have a last wish and that would be "Wish ,I would not wish sooo much in Life "....

                                                  and this wish will never ever get fulfilled ..This is Life..just be calm ,cool,Love people...God has sent us to love ,care and share our Life and preserve our happiest and lovely moments.Enjoy it,so that at our last breath,when our entire life flashes we could close our eyes with a cute 'smile' :)