Sunday, April 1, 2012

Bade Acche Lagte Hain....


Bade Acche Lagte Hain....is a serial (soap) ,on Sony ,that Iam gonna talk in this blog today.Hmm..basically its an awsome program that features two of them,a 33 year old middle class lady named 'Priya sharma' and a 40 year old super rich guy,a bussiness tycoon 'The Ram Kapoor'..

Both of them are unmarried till age.They have a different life style and are engrossed in their routine.They aren't married for some reasons ,but the main reason is "They actually never found a right partner"...and generally a series of situations are shown .....and later Ram and Priya are married ,but yeah they just get married on a contract based like just for their families...and then they dont adjust with each other,keep fighting...and lots more.Basically they hate each other and are just living a compromised life.And finally after 6 months of marriage...gradually they fall in Love...like staying together..sharing of cupboard and other stuffs in their room...and then gradually they start caring,supporting each other...and this way each of them realize that they actually are in Love ....and so on.....

When we reach a age...our parents,relatives n almost everyone tries their best to find a perfect match.I mean those bureau aunties and websites and lots more goes on for a partner searching.And obviously expectations are high ,everyone wants everything perfect in their partner...Generally we make ends meet just to find someone perfect..Many a times it does not happen !! I mean things dont meet,dont match and much more..And we get depressed...like "Why can't I get someone special?" , "Why am I not able to get my choice?" and such feelings usually comes to our mind.And the most common thought for girls is "Iam getting older !!"...not because Iam actually getting older...but because the entire society keeps on telling "beta you are 23 now na...are han kya you are 24 !!!"....It kills...

Then it happens that the person gets disheartened and finally assumes that his/her life can never have someone special ever...And that no one is made for him/her....and as years and years pass...this belief gets stronger..And finally they think that now we are quiet old and how can we fall in love OR Iam old enough and wont get married.......So basically this serial "Bade acche lagte hain..." is for the viewers who think that their age is passed and now its impossible to get someone in their life...And thats because its not you,your family or the society who finds for you...Its the destiny ,the time that makes you meet with people...and that time can be any part of your life...There's absolutely no time limit to find someone special !!! Thats truee...

You can't afford to be tensed and depressed just because the society wants you to get married soon ,at a proper age ,at a perfect time with a perfect person !!!! No...!! its planned and its gonna happen when its written in your destiny ..... so stop listening to stupid society demands..and wait for your destiny to do what is right ...........Surely God will answer the society by gifting you the bestest...so leave the rest :)....